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Thursday, March 6, 2014

Get Your But(t) Out of It

March 6 2014
Levi Lusko
Thursday Night service Harvest

Sorry Not Sorry - message title

James 3:2 (NIV)
We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check.

How we respond to our failures is one of the most important things about us.

"I'm sorry" is one of the most powerful terms in our language and also one of the most abused.

It fits right in with back handed compliments.

There is a difference between sorry and not sorry.

2 Corinthians 7:10 (NIV)
Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.

When pop culture recognizes all of the half hearted regrets in the world, then we have a problem.

Relationships can be restored when you truly apologize.

Genesis 3:6-13 (NIV)
When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. [7] Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. [8] Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden. [9] But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?” [10] He answered, “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.” [11] And he said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from? ” [12] The man said, “The woman you put here with me---she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.” [13] Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”

Genesis 3:21 (NIV)
The Lord God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them.

3 elements of a proper apology.
1. Responsibility, own it.
2. Regret or repentance.
3. Remedy- how do you fix it.

All sin started with this original sin of Adam. "The Adam Bomb of Sin"

The story of our lives is God draws a line and says don't cross it. But we do anyhow!

This story is a casebook study of how not to apologize.

3 things we need to gets our buts out of:
1. The trees your hiding among.

Adam and Eve used to enjoy being in those trees and now they were hiding in them. They were happy to see God, then they became scared of him.

Unconfessed sin changes what you loved, to things that you dread.

Secret sin will make you irrationally afraid of the God that loves you. That's the devil whispering in your ear.

When you sin, the thing you must do is run to what scares you the most. Hiding never works.

Numbers 32:23 (NKJV)
But if you do not do so, then take note, you have sinned against the LORD; and be sure your sin will find you out.

You can't hide from God. Sin makes you stupid.

Genesis 3:9 (NKJV)
Then the LORD God called to Adam and said to him, "Where are you?"

God was giving him a chance to come clean.

Proverbs 28:13 (NKJV)
He who covers his sins will not prosper, But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy.

2. Out of the excuses you are hiding behind.

Question:
Genesis 3:11 (NKJV)
And He said, "Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you that you should not eat?"

Excuse: from Adam
Genesis 3:12 (NKJV)
Then the man said, "The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate."

From Eve:
Genesis 3:13b (NKJV)
The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”]

You always lose when you try to excuse.

Once you fess up, shut up! Anything you say next is just going to cover your excuse.

Never allow the word but in your apology.

When you use the word but in apology, you only mean what comes after the but.

Don't apologize and give an excuse, that is not an apology.

3. Out of those fig leaves you are hiding under.

God can't clothe what you cover up.

Covered up your sin:
Genesis 3:7 (NKJV)
Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coverings.

Loved by God:
Genesis 3:21 (NKJV)
Also for Adam and his wife the LORD God made tunics of skin, and clothed them.

The fig tree is the only tree that Jesus ever cursed.
Mark 11:14 (NKJV)
In response Jesus said to it, "Let no one eat fruit from you ever again." And His disciples heard it.

Mark 11:24 (NKJV)
Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.
Mark 11:25-26 (NKJV)
"And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. [26] But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses."

Jesus knows you can never be helped with a problem that you don't admit.

God clothed them and protected them before they left the garden. The lamb that died to clothe them and protect them, the Lamb of God died to protect us.

When Grace and Sin collide, Grace always wins.


There is nothing you have ever done that God can't and won't forgive if you come clean.

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